Going in, I wasn't so sure about this one. I always make eye contact with people just because I think it is polite. Extending the gaze into an awkward stare is a little much for me. For a second, I didn't think I would get this one done.
I had a few errands to run today. The first being Target. I figured there was a few opportunities to complete todays task. I had it all planned out. I was headed to the laundry detergent isle and while there I was going to lovingly gaze into the eyes of whomever else was there. My plan was foiled. I was walking down one of the center isles and there was a man in a black shirt standing at the end of the isle...staring at me. At first I wasn't sure because he was kind of far away, but the closer I got the more evident it became that this guy was totally staring me down. I continued walking, watching him stare at me. Then, He began talking to himself WHILE staring at me. Awkard much? Yes, very. at this point I'm about 2 feet away I'm thinking to myself "why is this clown staring at me? oooh, I wonder if he's doing the Benrik book too. I hope he doesn't say anything to me"
Stranger: Hi
Me: um....hey
Stranger: You look familiar
Me: um....do I?
Stranger: You don't know who I am do you?
Me: Should I?
Stranger: Isn't your name Cookie?
So I'm freaking out. Only my dearest closest friends and family call me cookie or even know that that is my nickname. I have to know this guy.
Me: Yeah
Stranger: Your mom's name is Sharon..
Me: I know that. Who are you?
Stranger: My name is Edwin
Me: OH!!!!! HI!!!!
**HUGS**
It was my God Brother!!! I see this guy, randomly, just like today about once every 4 years or so. And every time I have no clue who he is until he says, "My name is Edwin" lol. So we talked and caught up a bit. I was so flustered I forgot 4 of the 6 things I went for and forgot all about my task.
About an hour later I was at the supermarket. My last errand for the day. At this point I had given up and deemed myself a complete failure. Alas, my son, Kai created a moment for me. The checker is ringing me up and Kai who is 2 is grabbing for everything within reach. He knocked over the change dispenser and coins went flying everywhere.
At the time I was just annoyed and frustrated. I didn't realize the opportunity he had just created for me. My total was $32.47. I gave Michelle, the checker, $33.00. When she handed me my change I put my hand on top of hers and stared longingly into her eyes. I could sense the confusion in her face. The bagger was standing there mouth open just as confused. The man behind me was trying his best not to look. After about 14 second she snatched her hand away. I smiled and told her to have a great day. Kayla and I laughed hysterically as we left the store.
I didn't think I was going to be able to pull this one off. Not only did I get it done, I managed to make 3 people super uncomfortable instead of just one. Yay me!!
